1.16.2014

Homeschooling

I'm not gonna lie.  Homeschooling is a lot of work, but it has been a tremendous blessing to our family this year.  It was absolutely the right decision.  The beautiful sisterhood growing between Violet and Mia (who used to see each other as rivals for my affection) is like watching this amazing sunrise...little hints of color here and there, beauty slowly unfolding.

Mia smiles so often these days.  Her thalassemia leaves her with less energy than the average 8 year old.  She's pretty much exhausted by dinner time.  That means that we get to enjoy her during the best hours of her day instead of after the bus drops her off at nearly 430 when she's melting down. 

And Gabe?  Slow and steady wins the race.  :-)  He's home to get stronger on his basic academic skills which we felt were getting lost in the public school system in the midst of classes on getting along and spelling "words your way."  (That's actually the name of the curriculum they had been using!  As if you can make up however you want to spell a word!)

We can't imagine the insanity of having all of them in school while going through Violet's surgery last week and this next month.  Talk about craziness!  We've been able to concentrate on what really matters each day...sometimes it's reading and math and sometimes it's physical healing.

People have asked me what a typical day looks like for us.  We start around 8:30 each day and start with devotions.  We follow with spelling taught together.  They split up for a personal Bible class.  Gabe is studying the book of Matthew and Mia is working through a Junior Catechism.  Violet has a simple devotion calendar she works on.  Then the kids begin Language Arts and Math.  We're back together to finish up with History and Spelling.  We're studying the History of the World in a four year cycle, beginning this year with Ancient History.  We've mummified a chicken, created clay tablets, made faux stained glass, and more as projects that correlate with what we're reading.

My goal this year for Violet was to "fill in the gaps" I was noticing in vocabulary.  Things that weren't obvious.  I decided to use Five in a Row as her language arts curriculum because it is centered on classic children's books that I wanted to make sure she got to enjoy before it was too late.  Books like Make Way for Ducklings, Ping, Madeline, The Little House, The Snowy Day, Owl Moon, and more.  As we read the books, I'm able to stop to make sure she has heard all of the words before and define any she hasn't yet learned.  We read the book five days in a row and do thematic learning projects that go with the books.  For example, we start Owl Moon next week.  We'll be learning about the phases of the moon, doing watercolor resists that mimic the style of the books artwork, learning about owls, sketching owls from the bird collection at our local library, watching videos about different owls and finish with an owl puppet project.  What first grader wouldn't LOVE to do those things?  Then, of course, there's still math and spelling, etc.  She is progressing so well in her reading with this simple approach to reading that we are thrilled!  During Advent, she was able to lead our family in our Psalm readings some nights and read directly from the Word.  There's nothing better than that!

Mia is a fantastic reader so she is enjoying chapter books.  I have her reading "junior classics."  They are abridged versions of Pollyanna, Black Beauty, Anne of Green Gables, and so on.  She loves them.  She also likes to join us for the Five in a Row.  Even though she reads on her own, it's fun to snuggle with mom on the couch and listen in.  :-)


I rotate in a gentle grammar curriculum, as well.  The girls memorize poems with it and are learning to identify parts of speech.  It's too simple for Gabe, so he works from a primer I found that was used in the early 1900's.  I love the vintage artwork in it.  I love that it demands attention to detail and doesn't shy away from classic literature, like Longfellow and Whittier.  He loves that the squirrel matches the Duck Dynasty notebook he picked out to write his work in.  It says, "Squirrel brains make you smart on the front.  Eat Squirrels."  Ahem.

If we work REALLY hard, we can finish by lunch, but if we have a bigger hands-on project, we're often working in the afternoon, too.  At 1, we have a Silent Reading time.  Every day, they make little "reading nest" (their choice) somewhere in the living room.  Blankets, pillows, and stuffed animals are all arranged for comfort.  Each of them has their own reading basket that holds the books they've picked at the library that week.  And then....it is BLISSFULLY SILENT FOR ONE FULL HOUR.  I try to read the textbook for whatever class I'm currently taking during that time, but sometimes I just take the hour to read whatever I feel like because moms need a break, too!

Last night, Randall and I talked about how the homeschooling is going. We don't know how long we'll homeschool.  The plan is one year at a time.  It's what was needed this year...and to be honest, we are really excited to see how much better they're progressing academically at home than they could at school....and i am not blaming schools....it's just easier at home to learn at your speed without waiting for peers if you already understand something or to slow down if you don't.  However, the prep time is enormous.  Creating the education I would like them to have takes hours each week for me, not counting the daily time to teach them.  It's tough taking grad classes on top of it all.  So, we'll see.

Right now, this is my ministry and I love being able to do it.

Oh!  And the other question I get asked all the time is whether Randall helps at all.  The answer is ABSOLUTELY!  He's a great principal.  And he works right up the hill!  :-)   We don't find we need that much because the kids are so happy to be home and they mostly enjoy what we're doing (except long division because WHO likes that?!)  Randall homeschools the kids nearly every Friday on  his day off and I spend the day working on my own homework.  He knows exactly what we're doing in almost every subject and has hopped in several times when I've had dr appointments and such.  He helps pick curriculum, too.  What I most appreciate is his willingness to be a sounding board for ideas and his absolute 100 percent joy in seeing what the kids create and learn.

I'm so glad we went for it this year!





Girl's Got Wheels

 

A night ago we heard a knock on our door and a friend from church had acquired a pediatric wheelchair for Violet!  Brand new even!  Score!  She LOVES it!  While she can get around on her walker, she is not a  big fan.  It is sloooooow going and for a girl who is highly able bodied, she sometimes prefers to scoot places because it is faster.  I end up carrying her longer distances and believe you me, this back ain't what it used to be.  :-)

We will mostly use this when we are out and about over the next month...parking lots, church, etc.  She excitedly asked if she could sit with our friend at church who uses a wheelchair and sits way up front.  Too cute!

Of course, the younger sibs were slightly jealous.  It spins on a dime.  :-)

1.13.2014

Check up

Cast removed to check Violet's wound today. Looking good. Well, not looking GOOD but you know what I mean. Recasted. Now she's hurting. Poor thing. Tylenol and Curious George to the rescue! Oh....and a cannoli on the way home for good measure. I mean if you're passing a FABulous bakery and your baby asks....

Three weeks until the next check.  In the meantime, big fiberglass cast and a small walker...and lots of patience on her part.

1.12.2014

Getting Closer...

Violet was so much more herself today!  She is still not liking the walker.  The sheer weight of the cast is hard to lug around.  She prefers to scoot on her bottom on the floor if she can get away with it. :-)

It's funny how you get into a routine quickly.  She needs to keep her leg propped up or it still hurts so she often sits with it on a pillow.  For meals, she sits in one chair with her leg up on another.  Mia just naturally shares the seat with the cast each time.  Too cute.

The girls and I stayed home from church today and spent the time reorganizing our homeschooling things.  They love that sort of task and it needed to done.  Sharpening pencils is a great task for the chair-bound child!  I decided snowflakes for the bulletin board were in order for our next school theme of literature with snow themes and the girls were happy to oblige.

Tomorrow, we're back to Shriners to remove the cast and see how everything is healing.  She's not a fan of the saw that cuts the cast.  Especially when a brother with genuine concern says, "Do they use like a chain saw for that?  What if they miss?"  :-(

Since we didn't get to Violet's favorite bakery on the way home from the hospital, tomorrow may just be the day.

Noah is running a pretty high fever tonight so we pray that the germs stay far away from Violet.  That's certainly the last thing she needs right now.

More tomorrow!

Breathing Deep

It's a very strange thing to be a dreamer living a "do-ers" life.  Transfusions, surgeries, homeschooling lessons, graduate classes are all things that require attention to details and a lot of "small" tasks.  Two years ago, when God began whispering that our life would be changing, I knew it would require more of God and less of me.  It's so true.

Just about each morning when I pour a huge cup of coffee that used to be decaf but now is as much regular as my heart will allow, I take a slow breath, drink deep of HIM.  He in me is what I need.  I need His patience.  His love.  His wisdom.  To parent these children.  To find peace in a home-centered life.  To find joy in serving my family.

And I am so surprisingly content in these days He's giving...one morning at a time.